HLnovel Chapter 544: Teaching by example, the essence.
Chapter 544: Teaching by example, the essence.
Andy couldn't help feeling a little depressed. There were three of them when they came here, but when they went back, he was the only one driving.
Qiu Yingying couldn't hold back any longer and was ready to ask for advice.
After two days of continuous blows, she is now a martial arts fanatic, as if she had seen peerless martial arts, so she couldn't wait to speak when she got in the car, "Brother Chen, you are so amazing. If I had your eloquence, I wouldn't have been bullied by that scumbag yesterday, and I wouldn't be ignored today."
"That shopping guide was too much. Her words were so rude..." Guan Juer also echoed her sisters and complained together.
"Brother Chen, can you teach us? Otherwise, Guan Guan and I will be easily bullied when we go out."
Guan Juer also seemed eager to try. After all, although she didn't like quarreling, it was because of her own personality that she was not good at it. So rather than saying that she was not good at quarreling, it would be better to say that she didn't know how to do it at all....
Looking at Guan Juer who was eager to try, Chen An felt amused, but he really wanted to teach them a lesson.
"In fact, when it comes to quarreling, it's a science. After all, we live in this society and conflicts with others are inevitable. If we can't solve the problem with fists, then we can only resolve it with words."
"To give you a simple example, let's take what happened to Yingying yesterday. Since he threw dirty water on you, saying that you harassed him and made him lose his job..."
"Don't rush to explain or prove your innocence at this time. Once you follow the other party's line of thought, you are doomed to fail. After all, as the saying goes, if you defend too long, you will lose."
"The simplest way is to attack his weak spot directly. Since he was detained because his attempt to forge property failed, you can use this to attack him. He will be the one who loses his composure, and your goal will be achieved."
"Of course, people with different personalities have different ways of quarreling. To put it simply, the core elements are just a few words. Only talk about you, not me; only attack, not defend. Then you can be invincible."
Qiu Yingying scratched her head, a little embarrassed, "Brother Chen, I understood what you said yesterday, but your later part was too general, I didn't understand it at all?"
"For example, if someone said to you, Qiu Yingying, where did you buy this dress? It's so ugly and you have no taste at all, how should you respond?" Chen An asked with a smile.
Qiu Yingying thought about it for a while and said, "I like it myself, what does it have to do with you?"
"This is a trap. The most effective way is to ask in return, "Are you qualified to judge others?" Then, with a disdainful look, the other person will be furious..."
"Wow, wow, I got it. Brother Chen, please continue..."
Chen An thought for a moment and gave an example. "For example, if a colleague, in front of everyone, sarcastically says that the reason for your promotion and salary increase is not honorable, then you can directly ask, do you have any evidence? If not, it would be inappropriate to judge others by your own standards."
He patted Guan Juer's thigh and reminded her, "Remember, sometimes, you must be careful to guard against some insidious remarks in the workplace."
"Especially when someone pretends to care about you and asks you, Guan Guan, why do I feel like the leaders have been targeting and suppressing you recently?"
"At this time, even if the story is true, you must not fall into the language trap directly, but ask the other party, how did you find out? I think the leader treats me very well."
Guan Juer was shocked. If Brother Chen hadn't reminded her, she wouldn't have realized her colleague's sinister intentions. Now she suddenly understood and quickly followed her man to learn humbly...
I have to say that my own Guan Guan is the smarter one. He learned things quickly by analogy. Unlike that silly Qiu Qiu Yingying, who still couldn't figure out the rules even after listening to my words and deeds for half an hour.
Recently, Fan Shengmei and Wang Bochuan have been in a hot relationship. Today, Wang Bochuan took the initiative to invite Fan Shengmei to a restaurant to try food together.
It should have been a wonderful weekend, but unfortunately, it was fate. Qu Xiaoxiao had nothing to do today, so she was playing with the kitten downstairs. She happened to see Fan Shengmei, who was dressed up like a show-off. She followed her out of curiosity and saw a handsome guy. But from the smiles of the two people, she had some guesses about who came to pick up Fan Shengmei...
Whether out of curiosity or annoyance, she secretly took a picture of the license plate number.
When Fan Shengmei came back from her date, Qu Xiaoxiao immediately went to her house and told her the secret she had 'accidentally' discovered. Seeing Fan Shengmei's smug look disappear in an instant, she inexplicably felt refreshed in her heart, and she did not forget to tease her a few times before she left.
Fan Shengmei was very angry and disappointed about Qu Xiaoxiao's meddling in her affairs.
She was angry that Qu Xiaoxiao had shattered her dream, and she was angry that Wang Baichuan had deceived her.
What was disappointing was that even though she had a good impression of Wang Baichuan, he was not a successful man who could provide her with a stable life.
After struggling for a long time, she still hadn't figured out how to deal with their relationship. It wasn't until the sound of the door opening that she was pulled out of her thoughts.
"Sister Fan, how was your date today?" Qiu Yingying rushed over, hugged Fan Shengmei's arm, and asked curiously.
Fan Shengmei said perfunctorily. Seeing her little sister so happy, she couldn't help but be curious, "Yingying, you are so excited, is there something happy happening?"
"Yes, I learned something today..." Qiu Yingying pulled Fan Shengmei and started to share what happened today. She is just that kind of person and can't keep things in her heart.
Fan Shengmei didn't think much of it after hearing this. These social etiquettes were just basic stuff for a seasoned expert like her. However, seeing the looks of the young sisters, she didn't dampen their interest.
"By the way, Sister Fan, we accompanied Sister Andy to buy a lot of food. Sister Andy wanted us to get together."
When Fan Shengmei heard this, she wanted to refuse, but then she changed her mind and asked, "Is Xiao Qu here too?"
"yes.."
Hearing that Qu Xiaoxiao was also there, Fan Shengmei simply agreed. Although Wang Baichuan's affairs were destined to be exposed, she had to be there in person, otherwise she didn't know how Qu Xiaoxiao would arrange it...